No Flash toggle Utube

[Mele20]

I don't like Flash and don't have it installed on Fx on my host computer. But it is installed on Fx 10 enterprise (as well as the IE8 version) on a guest machine running on VMWare Workstation 7. The OS is XP Pro SP2 (same as my host OS). I have no toggle switch at Utube. Flash just starts playing. It is version 11.2.202.228. I played Flash video at HawaiiNewsNow and there I have a toggle switch.

I tried IE8 at Utube and I have no toggle there either. The flash video just immediately starts playing.

It doesn't seem to matter what config file is loaded as this happens with the latest as well as Sidki 2010 and 2009. Is this a known issue with Utube that I didn't know about because I seldom use Flash? Or is there something else going on?